"Dear brothers, is your life full of difficulties
and temptations? Then be happy, for
when the
way is rough, your patience has a
chance to grow.
So let it grow, and don't try to squirm
out of your problems
For when your patience is finally in
full bloom,
then you will be ready for
anything,
strong in character, full and
complete."
-- James 1:2-4, the Bible
Stuff
happens. It's inevitable. We certainly could have attracted it unknowingly, and
in all reality, it simply doesn't really matter where the current circumstances
came from. It is just that they are here right now.
Who
knows what it is or how many there are one upon another? A loved one in a
hospital with serious illness, a lost employment position, a foreclosure, a
bankruptcy, more bills than you have funds for, a deadline you can't meet, and
so many more. We all have some of these things going on somewhere in our lives.
Maybe in our face, on the horizon, around the next corner, it matters not. What
does matter is not what they are or the fact they are here or looming. What
matters is how we think about them, respond or react to them.
The
quote above indicates to get excited about our problems and be happy for the
blessings that they contain in results, changes, and even personal
growth.
It
sounds crazy to get excited and be thankful for getting fired, but crazy
sounding or not, it is a powerful and positive choice that holds the brightest
and wisest future in its grasp. Any other response will provide less, and often
keep the problem in tow longer than desired.
If
you're a Christian, I strongly suggest to go get a copy of the book by Merlin R
Carothers called Power In Praise, How the Spiritual Dynamic of
Praise Revolutionizes Lives. My copy has so many
underlines, margin notes, stars and so on to remind me to reread that part again
and again. If you're not a Christian, read it anyway and you can substitute
Universe for God, and such. It will still be powerful and even
life-changing.
This
is the first book that taught me about being thankful for problems and
challenges along with the so-called good things. Since that is not how most of
the world responds, we have been well-trained to be unhappy, perhaps even
devastated when these negative things come around, but take joy in the fact that
you can be different, and you can find a better way. I practice now all the
time. I may not react or respond immediately, but when I allow myself to
consider the situation, I remember to be thankful for it, accept it and begin to
find joy in it. I can't wait for the day when I go there without needing to
think about it. In the meantime, I take the joy as it comes.
It
always seems to work out for the best. I've found that even the most initially
traumatic things turns out to be the best thing that could have happened. Isn't
that interesting. . .
Be Thankful In EVERYTHING! It Changes
EVERYTHING.
Spread Some Joy Today--Make a list of your current problems or situations
that bother you. After you're done, write in large letters at the top of the
page: Things and Situations That I Am Thankful For: Then, take another look at
each entry and see how different they look
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